My mom and father did not get married till I was almost 17 (they at the time had been in law school, opening their own firm and raising me and my 3 sisters) any how, my father purposed with a ring had the wedding whole nine yards many years later I got engaged and now married. My father gave my mother a plain solitaire with a diamond a little over 1/2 carrot, when I became engaged I also received a solitaire diamond engagment ring but my diamond is slightly under 1 full ct (a noticeable diffrence) might I add the stone of mine is a family stone passed down. My mother and I live states away but every time I go home to see her she points out how mine is bigger. At one point I took mine off and put it in her jewlery box with hers and she tried to take mine as her own! (which we know it wasn’t bc the size diffrence and one is platinum ones white gold) how do I get her to stop its gotten to the point that I don’t want to wear it to her house bc she is driving me nuts! What do I do?

Sorry for !any typo this was typed on my phone!